“Engage – How to Stop Living in Default and Start Living the Life You Desire” will help you discover your vision and purpose as well as ignite the courage you need to live your best life today.

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Hi, I’m Mel Leow

With almost three decades of experience in coaching, consulting, marketing and leadership throughout the Asia Pacific region, Mel’s key driver is to empower catalysts and leaders to embrace Living Brave.

Mel Leow, MCC has worked closely with C-suite leaders, executives, coaches and high achievers in various industries to align their vision, purpose and values to their potential, and engage them to take the next step on their journey to living the life they desire.

Are you ready to break free from your state of flux?
Are you ready to challenge your default reality?
Are you ready for fresh and new, a reset, a change?
Are you ready to engage life with your vision and purpose?

Whatever situation you are in, whatever circumstances you might be facing, you can take back control of your vessel and navigate your world— your thoughts, emotions, self-beliefs—to a safer and more prosperous har- bor. I believe you were made for greater things.

Are you ready to engage, stop living by default, and start living the life you desire?

Ready, set…. Here we go!

Mel Leow

You Have The Power To Engage

“Mel’s book is full of hands-on insights and real-life stories from his journey as a highly regarded and sought out international coach. This book will help those who feel stuck living day by day in a cycle they cannot seem to get out from. Give yourself and another this gift. Get ready – life is about to profoundly change!”
Michelle Duval
Fingerprint for Success

“One of the reasons we don’t get what we want in life is because our ‘shoulds’ and ‘fears’ cloud our dreams. ‘Engage’ will help you clear the fog so you can see and claim the path you are called to engage that will most fill your heart.”

Dr. Marcia Reynolds, MCC
Global Leadership Coach and author of Outsmart Your Brain: How to Manage Your Mind When Emotions Take the Wheel

“Engaging and practical. Mel packs this book with inspiring and real-life examples from his years of coaching leaders globally. Get empowered today and start living the life you truly deserve.”

Paul Martinelli
Empowered Living

“I am not a person that enjoys reading much. But ‘Engage’ kept engaging me. Mel’s sharing about his journey to a happier self, paired with questions for the reader was so fascinating, that I could not wait to read the next chapter. And it really made me think! Do you want to change your life for the better? Then I recommend you read this book!”

Martin Kikstein
General Manager
Roche Services (Europe) Ltd.


The 12-Step Personal Transformation PROGRAM

ENGAGE includes a practical, step-by-step 12 week program designed to help you implement the learnings of the book. For 12 hours, over 12 weeks you will receive direct access to Mel Leow, unique insights and complete activities to stop living in default and start living the life you both deserve and desire.

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Week 1 - Engage your vision

“Vision without action is a daydream”
-Japanese proverb

It’s time to remember your dream, envision what will happen in your life, and determine the first step toward your vision.

Week 2 - Engage your focus

“The successful warrior is the average man, with laser-like focus” – Bruce Lee

We will apply the ‘See it, Speak it, Seize it, Stick with it’ method and align it to your dream. We’ll list the people you have been pleasing, and determine what needs to change to make your life more meaningful.

Week 3 - Engage your why

“Some days there won’t be a song in your heart. Sing anyway” – Emory Austin

There will be clues as to why you may not be really satisfied, let’s solve them by finding something in your life worth fighting or sacrificing for. We’ll assess the 5 signs that you may be ready to take the wheel by completing the exercise ‘Why-Why-Why-Why-Why’.

Week 4 - Engage your call

What I am looking for is not out there, it is in me”
– Helen Keller

Determine your values and uncover your IKIGAI. This will tell us what your mind, heart, body and soul’s desires are, and allow us to explore your ‘Perceptual Positioning’.

Week 5 - Engage your beliefs and attitudes

“Learning too soon our limitations, we never learn our powers”
– Mignon McLaughlin

We will overcome your false starts and take just one step forward. We’ll determine the 4 steps to unlock your limiting beliefs, leader to reframe and go through the 4 Positive Pointers to get your attitude moving along.

Week 6 - Engage your now

“Done is better than perfect
– Sheryl Sandberg

Using a range of exercises, including Active 7-mins Check-in and Calming 7-mins, this week we will practice the ‘Thoughts, Emotions and Actions (TEA) cycle’ and answer 3 quick questions on Pleasure, Meaning & Action.

Week 7 - Engage your brave

“The future belongs to those who believe in the beauty of their dreams”
– Eleanor Roosevelt

Together we will execute 4 strategies to enhance the quality of your decisions, conduct a Spring Clean (to unpack/repack what’s serving or not serving you), and go through the 6 Stages of change to set you up towards your goals. We’ll also tackle the ‘4 Es to a BRAVE Outcome’.

Week 8 - Engage your potential

“You have got to make the jump” – Steve Harvey

Discover your ‘Life’s Calling’, determine the ‘Explorer Mindset’ within you, gain clarity on the price you have to pay to achieve your goals and learn how to surround yourself with believers of human potential.

Week 9 - Engage your all

“One can choose to go back toward safety or forward toward growth” – Abraham Maslow

‘How bad do you want what you want?’ – let’s find out. We’ll also cover 5 Ways to embrace confusion, envision your perfect day in order to live an inspired life and 3 motivational growth circles, barriers & igniters.

Week 10 - Engage your passion

“It’s not what happens to you, it’s what you do about it”
– W. Mitchell

We will explore ‘How do you Prime Enthusiasm every single day?’ and answer 2 questions – What’s serving you? and What’s holding you back? We’ll also list out your fuelers and drainers and discover your P-P-P Dynamic.

Week 11 - Engage your growth

“Growth is not merely a harmonious increase in size, but a transformation” – Maria Montessori

Your list of Quick Stop Ideas and a live role-play exercise ‘Coaching with the GROW model’ will answer ‘Where in your life can you get close enough to get dirty? and go through the ROCK-ON strategies to grow.

Week 12 - Engage your happy

Ignite your meaning of ‘happy’ and learn how to pull the happiness levers. Imagine wrapping a GIFT for the world, and being able to shift your OMG challenging moments to revelation moments. We’ll also go through a powerful ‘Rocking Chair Visualisation’ to finish the 12 weeks.

Stop living in DEFAULT & Start LIVING The Life You DESIRE!

Engage Your Life Now